The essentials, style edition. It’s great fun reading other writers’ lists (e.g. here and here) of their ten or five essential wardrobe items. I am list-compulsive myself: it keeps that analytical part of my brain quiet so my creative side can wander 😊 . Like most women, my essentials change as my style is re-defined, my body changes, and time marches on. For the last couple of years (not counting all those stay-at-home pajama days) my essentials have included:
- A denim skirt. I can wear one every day, and they’re more comfortable than most jeans. Every top I own can be worn with a denim skirt, from a funky Keith Haring tee to a silky button-down blouse. I have two denim skirts now, a midi by MANGO that I love love love, and a slightly edgy one, with asymmetric waist, by Boyish.
- Black, gray, and Breton-striped knit tops. I wear one almost every day, with that denim skirt or with straight-leg, cropped jeans. I like them soft and fitted, or with a bit of texture and oversized. The neutrals are great for my muted coloring, and every season I add one colorful tee. To make any tee more memorable, add some accessories – like a delicate pendant.
- Pendant necklaces, like the ones I find here. My tastes have changed over the last decade and I now prefer more delicate necklaces and charms. I wear one almost every day, in silver or gold tones, to elevate the tee-shirt look to a more feminine polished one. Etsy is a great place to score a vintage piece.
- Shoes or boots with attitude. I don’t wear proper running sneakers or Crocs (no offense to those who love them!). I am, however, crazy for “athleisure” shoes, like these high tops, and low-cut baby pink tie-ups. I just bought some fab Fly London peep-toe sandals for Spring, via the resale site Poshmark. Love the vintage vibe.
- Essence lipstick in “On The Catwalk“. It’s my signature shade, a deep mauve that brightens my face without screaming “LIPS!”, or fading away to nude. So sad that it’s now discontinued, but I found a decent duplicate: Bobbi Brown Soft Berry. It’s a touch lighter but still hits my color zone.
“Living with only the bare essentials has not only provided superficial benefits such as the pleasure of a tidy room . . . it has also led to a more fundamental shift. It’s given me a chance to think about what it really means to be happy.-Fumio Sasaki
I’d love to hear about your Essentials, and how they may have evolved over the years.
Stay safe, wash and wash and wash (your hands), xo
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